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[quote=Anonymous]I would try and meet up with her for lunch by yourself first while the kids are in school.  If you still have one at home get a babysitter or work out a swap with a friend.  You need to see what state of mind she is in and determine if you want to have her meet the kids.  If you decide to do something with the kids plan something your kids will enjoy.  Maybe a Duck boat tour thing.  I would try and do this when DH can come too.  You are in charge of this outing and she may join you.  If she starts saying things you don't want your kids to hear or she starts acting odly then at the end of the boat ride you are all gone.

I completely understand how you are torn about seeing her.  I have not seen my parent in 6 years.  I know I can't change the past and am now at a point where I am willing to move on and start over but I don't quite know how to get the logisticas of it done when they live 8hrs away and I have 4 kids.

Good luck and remember you need to be in control of this meeting.[/quote]

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