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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would limit the time that my own family spent with BIL's new family.  And I sure as heck wouldn't be vacationing with them.  How did you all wind up sharing a vacation house?  Is this something that you own together or something that you rented together.[/quote]

It is sort of a family compound, three smaller homes and a larger communal space. We all spend time there together every year and after Christmas. The entire family had a rough time this summer with these boys. My father actually marched the older boy 12 out of church after he farted for the third time. His mother tried to accuse my dad of manhandling him but my dad wasn't having it.[/quote]

That's a shame and good for your father.  Hopefully things will improve with these boys once they've had time to adjust.  It seems as though there is plenty of room in this compound and that you should all have your own personal space.  Maybe don't spend so much time together, do your own thing.[/quote]

Good for your dad. And maybe put together some girl things for the girls to do only. Give *them* a chance to vent, talk about anything that is bothering them, and mom-stuff too in case they don't have it with their step-mom.[/quote]

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