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[quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't have bought into as much of the "divorce cheerleading" way of thinking about it. There are soooo many articles online about how great everything will be, "children are resilient", everyone will be much happier, blah blah blah. Turns out, pretty much every single thing was much more difficult than I expected and looking back, I feel very naive. One of my kids is finally turning a corner, the other one has a ton of emotions about it (despite therapy) and really resists custody changes even though two years have passed, and I have not met anyone new. So, basically, I would have taken the finances and logistics more seriously, done more research and had more realistic expectations about the difficulty children sometimes have in adjusting, and not been dumb enough to think I would meet a better partner soon afterwards.[/quote]
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