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[quote=Anonymous]We visit DH's family specifically his mother and brother once a year for a week around Christmas every year.   FIL died last year.    They live in Phoenix.

This year we want to stay at mother-in-law's house instead of paying for a hotel.  She does not live there but resides at an assisted living facility and bIL is suppose to be winding down the estate, cleaning up the house, getting everything appraised that is of value, etc.  He was suppose to get everything done by May of this year but got an extension until November but looking at what has been done so far, the house will still be empty in December.

BIL and MIL are reluctant to let us stay there.  The house is a mess but I have offered to help clean it (refused) and for all the money we have spent on hotels in Phoenix, we could hire a cleaning crew and even put in a new half bath.

My husband agrees with me that his family is weird but this is ridiculous and making me furious.  I know I have to let this go but have to vent about these crazy people!  The really ridiculous thing is that they are both big fans of David Ramsey, the financial guru, and keep telling us to take his courses while refusing to let us stay at the house for our yearly 1 week visit  :shock:

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