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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Scott, it would be great to be friendly neighbors with you, but your constant advances make that awkward and it's very uncomfortable. I'm not interested in dating you or being flirted with. Please stop. Thank you for understanding and respecting boundaries."

Do not go stand outside to observe the world. If you go out, go with a specific purpose. To get the paper, to visit Carla across the street, to garden, whatever. That way when Scott tries to stand there making small talk you can say "Nice chatting with you, gotta get on with my day, see ya!" and walk away.

Be LESS polite. I guarantee that what you think is "polite" he thinks is "green light." [/quote]

Thanks. I have been much less polite and he still asked me to drinks recently. I declined.[/quote]

Each time he asks you, you need to not only decline but also say "Please stop asking me out, you're making me uncomfortable, I've told you before to stop."

FYI, as a feminist, do not fall into the trap of saying "I have a boyfriend" because it implies you're not available because you belong, as property to another man and you are not property. ::steps off soapbox::[/quote]

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