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[quote=Anonymous]what industry does he work in?

are his skills transferable to another type of job? if so, he could have been spending those years abroad working his ass off to shift to another career and make time to interview and network when he was home to see the wife.

it doesnt seem as if hes putting a strong level of effort to come home. his passive attempt at asking his employer to move back to the US doesnt sound sincere. the fact he's not trying to find alternatives such as a career shift says something as well.

im not going to throw out affair so loosely here. as a guy, i find it hard to believe that he is not working the hell out of his contacts and network to move back to US. if he insists on being abroad, why isnt he working any contacts where he is to help find something that his wife would like.

he seems to be really really lazy in the approach he is taking to find a middle ground or something. you need to present your friend with the hard reality that hes not putting shit into the marriage and that he is too easily conceding that there is no way out of his circumstance. he needs to try harder for himself, wife, and marriage. if not, he'll be living abroad alone and wont have to worry about flying back to US since he wont have anyone to fly home to except his kids. [/quote]

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