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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  thanks for the quick replies.

yes, we had sexual/emotional intimacy the first two years of dating and first year of marriage.  then things got wonky.  H stopped initiating sex.  we went to a sex therapist.  that helped for about a year.  wasn't awesome, but was good enough, and we were still emotionally close.  then stuff happened in life...health challenges, miscarriages, kids.  he retreated about 7 years ago and won't resurface.

to the PP who said she is more at peace with her situation...how did you get that way?  i was tolerating it but i am finally just devastated by the whole situation.  it isn't just no/low sex and cuddling...he does not share himself emotionally either.  i give of myself over and over and often times i am met with crickets.

thanks to the PP who gave her input about the realities of divorce.  how long did you hang in there?  it has been 7 years for me.[/quote]

Wait a minute, it's been 7 years that you've been hanging in there but you have a kindergarten-aged child?  How can that be?[/quote]

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