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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My sister is now 33 and desperately wants to get married to her boyfriend of SEVEN years.  She has made this sentiment clear and he has said he also wants to marry her.  Her gave her a soft deadline for when he thought he might propose, he missed it, and she basically let it slide and now just hopes for end of summer.  She has spent most of her "good years" with him and because of this I think she won't leave him.  There relationship is fine... he is sort of bland and not the best person in the world where as I think my sister is just the best.  I think she would leave him if she was 2-3 years younger and move on and find someone better but I think she thinks its too late and wants to get married and have a baby and will just wait it out for him "to be ready" whatever "ready" means.  He is 37 and almost none of his close friends are married so I don't think he thinks this is weird.  Should I butt out or say some honest things to her?  Do you all think its too late?[/quote]
What would you say?  That she missed most of her good years (I didn't know the good years were done at 33) or that her boyfriend is bland?  I don't see you having anything helpful to add here.[/quote]

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