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[quote=Anonymous]Back when my kids were younger, I caught my boyfriend/father of my kids in a nightclub kissing my next door neighbor/"friend."

I remember how devastated I was + how numb I felt months afterward.

However after the incident, he was very remorseful and became the boyfriend that I always wanted him to be. It took that circumstance for him to change! He started helping out more w/the kids, had a much kinder disposition and told me almost every day how sorry he was. I stayed w/him because I needed his help w/our kids plus honestly, I was afraid of being totally alone in the world.

Over time, my anger, bitterness and humiliation over what he did to me grew exponentially and it got to the point where any time he touched me, I was repulsed. It took seven years, but I finally realized that I didn't have to stay w/someone just because we shared children together and that staying in the relationship was driving me into a deep depression so I ended things.

#bestdecisionever

A huge weight was lifted off of my shoulders immediately and every breath I took thereafter was of fresh, clean air.

To anyone who stays w/a cheater, your love won't dissipate overnight, but will over time. You will never forget the pain this person caused you and eventually it will eat you up inside until it has taken your spirit and dignity.

Leave immediately.[/quote]

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