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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"So you've been doing a lot of IMing tonight. I noticed that every time I walk by, you hit the alt tab so the IM screen changes, as if you don't want me to see what you're typing.  What's up with that, because my expectation is that you'd be comfortable IMing with me sitting right next to you. Are you?"

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Marriage is about transparency. [/quote]

I guess I disagree with that.  While I don't IM with colleagues at work I wouldn't want my spouse to see, for example, my texts with my sister or my mom nor do I think my spouse has a right to see them.[/quote]

I don't think your spouse needs to see or read them, but actively hiding something is different than a basic expectation of privacy. I don't want me SO to be reading my conversations, but if he saw a snippet or a piece of one while walking by or sitting next to me it wouldn't cause me to freak and hide my phone. That is suspicious behavior like I have something to hide. [/quote]

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