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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My spouse works late most evenings at home and while I'm sure spouse is working there is a fair bit of IMing going on between spouse and work colleagues as well. This wouldn't bother me except often when I walk by there is the quick reach for Alt-tab to switch away from the IM program. Maybe it's just reflex or a worry that a snippet of conversation will look bad out of context, but should I worry? Should I not even be looking at what spouse is doing in the first pace? What standard do we judge IM banter by? I tend to think that if spouse wouldn't be comfortable having the IM conversation over the phone with me listening to spouses' end that perhaps the conversation shouldn't be happening over IM either. OTOH it could be mindless venting. Should I not even bring it up?[/quote] What messaging client? Work or public like Google or yahoo?[/quote]
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