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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Less than a year so I can't do infertility stuff yet. But I'm nearly 34 and have been wanting kinds for years. DH kept resisting but now that he's finally on board I am worried we waited too long. (I wanted to start years ago.) He kept telling me I would get pregnant right away, which I thought was BS. And I also recently learned the extent of my sister's infertility issues, which is freaking me out as I am worried that I am going to have the same problems....

Sorry to vent, I just feel super emotional lately and I am worried it's never going to happen....[/quote]

I felt for you until you said less than a year. You are just impatient and don't have "fertility struggles." I also think it's crazy you already feel like you can't be around anyone pregnant. What will you do if it takes 2 years? Hide in your house? Ugh.  [/quote]

Well, she might hide in her house some days.  Has it ever taken you 2 years to get pregnant?  It's pretty damn rough and you do the best you can.

It's NOT crazy to feel bad about other people being pregnant when you are struggling.  It's normal.  It's how you handle and cope with these normal feelings that matters.  OP, you do the best you can to be gracious and happy for others and when you feel bad, you cry in private and you tell your mom/sister/husband/best friend/whoever.  
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