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[quote=Anonymous]I'm in a similar situation with a four year old.  Two years ago, when my ex wife and I were talking about friends who divorced, wife said "divorce would never be an option for me." I thought we were in a normal lull in our marriage, like all my friends have experienced, but found out that lull was wife deciding she didn't want to be married to me, and then having an emotional affair that became a full affair.  I thought we should give our marriage 6 months of intensive work before deciding to split, but she was already out the door.  Like OP said, what are you going to do? You can't force someone to stay married.

Like OP, I don't involve my kid in my dating life, but I do date.  I don't think being single for the next 14 years would benefit my kid, although I won't introduce any dates until it's serious.

This isn't the situation I wanted to be in, but now I need to adjust to the new reality. My kid does want to live "all together" as a family, but there is no way for me to make that happen.[/quote]

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