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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can you talk to your dad about this?
Is there middle ground where they could bond over certain activities? As your son gets a little older, do you think he'll calm down a bit?[/quote]

they did get along when they did things together - it's just a general sense of disapproval my dad had for him. There was this astonished disapproval in his tone when my son would get frustrated and stop doing something, or would jump around, or would repeatedly sing a nonsense phrase.  Perhaps my son will be calmer when he is older, but it sucks that he has to be different.  Why can't my dad, like me, enjoy him for who he is (I do shut down the obnoxious stuff - that is just a behavioral manifestation of his enthusiasm and so I do work to have have him control it).

After I wrote this, I thought maybe this is more about me feeling subtly rejecte by my dad via his rejection of my son.  These things are always complicated . . .

Annoyingly, he talked about a colleague's 4 year old daughter who goes to avant guard poetry readings with her parents and sits there quietly (I think this was supposed to be about the great exposure the child is getting, but all I heard was the sits there quietly part)

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