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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Okay, you are a FTM to a five month-old and an accidental SAHM. Your unhappiness is probably temporary and situational. Your baby will get older (even an easy 5 month-old is still a lot of work) and you will get a job. Try to manage your resentment at your husband until this period is over and you feel like you have your footing back. Explain to your husband that you need to spend some time and probably some money focusing on your job search, even if that means getting a babysitter a few hours a week so you can network, hiring a career coach, contacting a head hunter, etc. Things will look different this time next year. The first year of a baby's life is hard on a marriage if one parent isn't happy with the way their life has changed.[/quote]

This right here. You have undergone a lot of change and stress and not all of it if your own making.

You might be dealing with PPD in the mix too.

Start with something...a babysitter a few hours a week, a therapist, a physical with a new GP and talk about your symptoms. Start some self care, and go from there.[/quote]

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