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[quote=Anonymous]This isn't a new thing, just more opportunities for it to happen with social media and technology.

I don't think shunning is the answer to everything but I don't think it's inexcusable. In fact it's the perfect response to inexcusable behavior.

I had a coworker I found out was a frenemy after she left the job. I learned she had made up lies that could have affected my job and licence and actually had tortured to have me fired. I never responded to her calls emails or texts again..... And there were a lot. Why bother making  contact  to say don't contact me again, I know what you did? I didn't have the inclination to spend more energy on her. When she had the Balls to show up on the job I told her I knew everything and to not attempt contact again. She gulped and left.

If it's a dating relationship with no wrongdoing I don't understand why people just don't say "I'm not feeling it/I'm not available/whatever" instead of ignoring, but then again, if I'm ignored I would move along and not spend energy on it too care.[/quote]

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