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[quote=Anonymous]My husband and I got into an argument the other night in the car during the bad thunderstorm. He got me a smoothie at our go to place while I was running errands that day.  He wanted to take me out to dinner. I thought it was sweet. He started running through a conversation he had with the lady that works at the juice place - telling me a little bit about her, her age etc, and then how he told her she was beautiful. I asked why he would say such a thing, that if I would say the same thing to another man he would be upset. He said it wasn't meant to be a big deal, he was only trying to be funny and friendly. He also said he didn't find her to be attractive and that it wasn't a big deal. I told him how upset I am over this and how uncomfortable it made me feel, and I didn't even know what his intent was for even telling me this but to make me feel bad. He turned the car around and said "So I guess this means you don't want to have dinner." I just kept quiet. After we stopped at a red light at an intersection, he puts the car on park and leaves me in the car. It's raining hard. I don't know where he went And I'm just sitting in the car stranded. I tried to call him a few times but he won't answer his phone. I then go into the driver's seat and drive around looking for him. I go into two stores to see if they've seen him and finally I spot him walking outside the strip mall. I tell him to get in the car, get out of this bad weather and talk about this like adults. He said he's not ready to talk and needs his space. He tells me to go home. I told him I'm not going to just leave him here alone during this bad weather. After much coaxing, he finally gets into the car and we talk things out in the car.  He tells me things haven't been good between us and he thinks it would be best if we take a break from each other. I haven't talked to him much over the weekend, trying to give him the space he needs but I'm also really upset and bothered that he would just leave me in the car in the middle of the road like that, and walk away just like that. 
I don't know how to proceed.[/quote]

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