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[quote=Anonymous]Your DH seems quite passive. If he doesn't like his family dynamic, HE needs to be more proactive. Does he volunteer ideas for activities for everyone to enjoy: hey, Kids & I are headed to mini golf/hunt for seashells/go snorkeling - wanna join us? Or does he sit around wondering why he's not invited to anything? If you're not going, it is a little odd for you to jump in to try & fix this on DH's behalf. At most, I would send a note to say your kids would like some quality time w/ grandma or aunt & list some ideas for activities you know they'd enjoy: I'll be stuck at work that week, but I'd love to treat you & the kids to ice cream/bowling/whatever. Also, you haven't said how old your kids are and how old your nieces/nephews are. If SIL doesn't have kids or her kids are much older/younger, maybe MiL/SIL are doing things that aren't age appropriate for your kids (spa/ mani-pedi/ etc).[/quote]
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