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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh lordy. To be 20 again. Why do you care what he thinks?? Just be confident and love yourself. You will see that if you love yourself, men (and women) will flock to you! I think big areolas are super sexy. [/quote]

I care because he is my boyfriend. I grew up in an abusive household and was made to feel ugly, unwanted, and have low-self worth. I was also sexually abused as a young child by a neighbor. I want him to love me and my body. I know he loves me. We have been dating for 17 months and he waited until I was ready to give him my V. [/quote]

OP, I am sorry you had it rough, transferring your feelings of self-worth to another human being is not the right way. YOU have to love your body- I know it is easier said than done, and at your age I didn't, and hadn't suffered to the level that you have in your lifetime. All your insecurities will not just magically get better for you if he loves you and your body, but really the only way to repair what you have been through is to do it for yourself. The sooner you realize that the sooner you can meet someone who wouldn't make you feel self-conscious about your body[/quote]

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