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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I recently went through a breakout, & am still hurting from it.  I want to get to the point where I can learn to be happy by myself.  I don't think I've ever been able to fully be happy alone, & this time I want to, & not rush off to the next relationship.  How do you do that?  I'm spending time with friends, staying busy with my son, but when I'm alone, I either veg out in front of the tv, or sleep.  I want more than that.  How do I get to that point?[/quote]

It takes time.  You'll go through cycles where you are depressed and feel like you need someone.  Then you'll have a few good days.  Eventually the good days will take over and you will begin to realize you don't need anyone to compliment you.

Keep doing things you want to do.  Stay busy.  Stay positive.

I love the fact that I am happy being alone.  It has given me a ton of confidence and that helps a lot with dating.  I have no problem walking away if things aren't right because I know I can be alone and be fine.[/quote]

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