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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I recently went through a breakout, & am still hurting from it.  I want to get to the point where I can learn to be happy by myself.  I don't think I've ever been able to fully be happy alone, & this time I want to, & not rush off to the next relationship.  How do you do that?  I'm spending time with friends, staying busy with my son, but [b]when I'm alone, I either veg out in front of the tv, or sleep. [/b] I want more than that.  How do I get to that point?[/quote]

Most people are pretty happy by themselves if they veg out in front of tv or sleep.   So, the first thing to do is learn to enjoy what you do naturally - without guilt, without an internal dialog and without being critical and judgemental.  As long as you are buying into the notion that is perpetuated by others, that you have to be doing xyz to be fulfilled (for eg. - be in a relationship), you will be dissatisfied and unhappy.

After that - look around. There is plenty to do around here. Other pp's have good suggestions.[/quote]

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