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Reply to "I'm 29 he is 24, is that too much of a gap?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was 30 and my husband was 25 when we met, at first i felt like you and i agree with the pp who said you will probably much earlier be ready for marriage and children, i had my first at 36 because he wanted to wait but if it feels right and you really like him i would say go for it. [/quote] This is me exactly. At first I figured it was just a fun fling and then figured it was a nice relationship with a guy I really liked but whom long term wouldn't work but then we were still together and neither of us wanted to break up. We did have to both compromise. For me, waiting until 35 to actively try for pregnancy (almost 37 before twins born) and going slower than I needed to and for him, being willing to have kids earlier than necessary and ahead of some peers. I still don't love that I'll be 40 and he'll still get to be 35 but I really like sharing our lives and we have a beautiful family.[/quote]
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