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[quote=Anonymous]Wow, that's awful. You have WAY more contact with them than I do with my own family, so I can totally understand why you are feeling blindsided and hurt! I would suggest that you NOT go through your DH for all of this. I highly suggest reaching out via snail mail to your SIL and MIL at least and simply say that you are totally hurt and blindsided by this very personal criticism, that you have tried to be a friendly/communicative DIL/SIL and that you have been in touch with them as much as you are your own family and friends. I would be very frank about how hurt you are and how this makes you far less comfortable to reach out and be in contact. That's a consequence of their hurtful behavior, not your desire to limit contact. And then I would limit contact for a long cooling off period. I'm most incensed by your user of an SIL. Asking for your beach house and then backstabbing you? Is your DH defending you to them? He'd better be.[/quote]
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