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Reply to "DH's job hunt: help me not be an ass."
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think some people (I don't want to generalize into men and women, but that's often what it is) see different "needs to do" around the house. My DH and I often work opposite days. It would never occur to him to do the dishes, as the magical dish fairy does them. Much like you, the house renovations get done, or planter boxes built. I let it be. Looking for work is still work (as is taking courses). For me, dishes aren't such a big deal, if he's contributing. I love the planter boxes that got built last weekend ((although I would have killed to not have had to vacuum). I don't think it's meant as disrespect. He may want to do "big things" to still feel worthy. Dishes don't make you feel very accomplished at the end of the day (lord I know). Building a planter box makes you feel like you did SOMETHING. he may need that righ now. [/quote]
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