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Reply to "DH's job hunt: help me not be an ass."
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I have been there, and for quite some time. My tongue is still scarred from being bitten so much. :) Hang in there. Trite, but true, that this is really hard on him too; job hunting is tough. Remind yourself of that each day. You may need to let some things go around the house while in this phase. Find a friend to vent to (and choose carefully; try not to vent to parents, in-laws, etc. who you want to love and respect your DH). Find something to do for YOU each week - go running, get out for a walk, see a friend, and have DH step up to handle the house/kids while you're out. It's OK, and healthy, to let him know that this is hard for you too. But acknowledge how hard it is for him when you do it - this should be a joint conversation and not a tally of what each of you are doing to contribute/not contribute right now. [/quote]
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