Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Tweens and Teens
Reply to "How to help DD who is being teased."
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]Maybe it is unrealistic for a 10 yr old to pull off, but what drove my bully insane was when I agreed with her. "Yep - I do like Jimmy. Love him. Love everything about him." etc etc. it took all the wind out of the sail and left the bully in the position of agreeing with ME just to try to get the power back. The more your daughter piles on in agreement, the less control the bully has to tease. (She should also stand face to face with him when she does it. As in a foot away. Just march right up to the little doucher. She can be assertive in a physical way even if she's smaller. Invading a persons physical space is another way to take power back.) Instead now he knows he is getting her goat and her being upset continues to feed the behavior. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics