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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I feel for you.  I'm not an introvert, but have a sister and some close friends who are.

I agree with the other posters that while play dates aren't critical, they are very helpful in developing your child's ability to negotiate one -on- one friendships and social situations (how to deal with conflict, sharing, etc.).  There is a different dimension to friendships that occurs outside of school, camp, aftercare, and other situations where an adult is present at all times.  It's really important for kids to figure out how to interact with another kid when there isn't direct supervision.

For the most part, once kids are older than 6 or 7, parents don't have to be involved, except to provide general supervision and snacks.  I generally keep one ear out to make sure that things stay on an even keel.  You don't need to socialize with the other parents much, although you may find it easier once your kids are interacting (because at least you have them to talk about!).

If your kids are introverted, they will benefit even more from playdates.  Try to see if you can do like one or two a month.  Or even one every other month.

Good luck to you.   [/quote]

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