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Reply to "Angry husband won't go to anger management unless I do it too"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I understand you are upset by his request. However, I would strongly encourage you to go and use it to your advantage. First off, if your instructor sees you interact and sees your husband's anger in action, the instructor may be able to provide an objective analysis of your dynamic as a couple. Secondly, you will learn language and techniques that he is learning, so you will be able to coach him if he starts getting angry at you-and if that just makes him more angry, that's a sign that it's time to leave.[/quote] My husband is a great actor (he's a trial attorney) but I will go keep level headed and calm as you and others have suggested. And maybe he will "reveal" himself to the counselor. This makes me sort of sad like we're playing all sorts of mind games on each other but maybe this is a good way to save our marriage. And frankly if it goes on or gets worse, I don't even want to save it, I just want out.[/quote]
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