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Reply to "Angry husband won't go to anger management unless I do it too"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's another way of dodging responsibility. He's telling you that he doesn't really have a problem: you do. What do you think about that?[/quote] I agree with you, and that's why it bothers me. It's like he's gaslighting me and making it like I'm the angry one. It's ok to be angry but he needs tools to express it in a nonviolent way.[/quote] I don't think you'll get very far with him seeing someone for anger management. I don't think you need it. He doesn't see he has a problem. If you see someone together, if you let him push your buttons or if you get at all emotional or excited with a raised voice, he'll say "see, she can't keep it together. I had to do xyz to keep her from losing it." If you can totally stay cool, unemotional, non confrontational under provocation, maybe a professional could help sort this out. Abusers are notoriously difficult to treat.[/quote]
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