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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why do troubled couples wait until it is too late?

I know 2 couples that have been having trouble for at least 7 years. Both were having trouble before kids, one couple has 1 kid, the other 2 kids now. They are miserable now. Neither one having sex (one couple for over 8 years). Both women tell the men why they aren't having sex--get off you ass and help around the house. One guy is threatening to have an affair--and there is proof of inappropriate IMing with other women.  The other one is probably having one, but no proof.

They've been in crisis for YEARS. Why is it only now that one couple is looking into counseling and the other is just resigned herself (and her child) to a miserable marriage and home life.

Why don't couples seek help right at the beginning? Why wait until all the damage is done? if you were or are in a marriage in crisis, why did you wait?[/quote]

Just remember that what you think you know is likely far from the truth. You appear to be friends with the wives by the way you talk about the men and affairs and "inappropriate IMs" and we all know women are good at painting a damning picture when they want to play the victim.

They may have had issues for a long time but they also probably had a lot of good times in their too. You only know the bad, not the day to day good. [/quote]

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