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[quote=Anonymous]Late 20's guy here (who has had very similar interactions with GFs in the past):

A couple of things I'm not exactly following--

Why did you feel left out of the weekend activities?  Did you want to be invited and weren't?  Did you not feel like he kept in touch enough over the phone?

I'd say there is a strong chance that his lackluster greeting revolved around your initial tiff.  He was probably saying to himself "GF knew I had an exhausting, emotional weekend at home...why is she choosing to make this about herself?"  Even though you "made up", it probably festered until the next time he saw you, and his greeting was his way of letting you know (albeit, passive aggressively) that he was upset or disappointed about what happened the other night.

The relationship is a two way street, and actions have reactions.  It's not fair to him to expect him to be sunshine and smiles all the time, based on your whims.  The better plan would have been to express how excited you were to hug and kiss him when you spoke to him after his exhausting weekend.[/quote]

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