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[quote=Anonymous]Your sister can mitigate this issue by giving her mother a role that it will not matter if your mother completely screws up. Let it be symbolic and somewhat sentimental, so she feels important, but if she forgets, or storms out, or refuses to cooperate the day of because something offended her sensibilities - the ceremony can go forward and no one is counting on her to deliver on the commitment. And then emotionally detach. Your sister should stay focused on her groom and their marriage that day. You should focus on whatever role you've been given. Be upbeat and happy. Don't complain. If your mom gets upset, just focus on your task. Don't engage. Tantrums, attention seeking behaviors, drama - they all require an audience and some one to care. Don't be that audience. Don't care. Your mom is welcome to celebrate in her daughter's wedding. If she chooses to sulk through out it, that's her choice and you won't join her. [/quote]
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