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[quote=Anonymous]I have posted before about my dad losing his house and moving in with my husband and I, it has been about 8-9 months and after 5 months of him not contributing anything financially or making any effort to work I told him he could not stay with us unless he had employment.

He has not gotten employment yet and stays at his girlfriends house while storing some things at my place. Fine. Except that I have suspected he is coming over while we are at work, things moved, towels wet in the shower, less food in the fridge. And then confirmed it last night when my little brother who was going out for drinks with friends, asked if he could crash at our place so the cab would be cheaper. He got in at 3 and said he almost had a heart attack because my dad was on the couch sleeping.

I had asked my dad for my key  months ago but this is ridiculous. Not to mention dangerous because if I woke up to someone sleeping on my couch, that wasn't supposed to be there, who knows what my husband would do in a panic. He left before we got up at 530 and he doesn't have a cell phone so who knows when I'll see him again. But I don't know what to do. Change the locks I guess? But we rent and aren't allowed to. I could talk to him but I've tried before. He won't work. He has no money. He's probably homeless. I don't know what to do. Tia.[/quote]

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