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[quote=Anonymous]I think its an issue when sex becomes some kind of currency. In a good relationship, both people should want that intimacy. So the guy who thought sex was a barometer--yes, its true. Its a barometer of whether you're on the same page about sex, its value in a relationship.

and as for finding the "expectation" a turn off: I would only do so if that expectation meant there was no effort put into sex. But to me, its sort of like cooking and eating dinner together. If my husband started acting annoyed because I 'expected' him to be home for dinner (within reason), to sit and chat with me, then I would think he was changing the terms of our relationship and that the intimacy and companionship I expect out of a marriage--someone who wants to have dinner together and talk about our day--was not being fulfilled. Same goes for sex.. Sex and dinner--both demonstrate consistency and desire and willingness to share in something that builds and maintains intimacy and connection. [/quote]

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