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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ah yes my exH treated me like dirt and expected sex. I had no attraction to him plus he wasn't around a lot to help with our small child. Low and behold the dickwad would way until I was asleep to pull a fast one. Zero communication plus being treated like dirt = no sex. Go figure.

I don't know. The guy I am dating says sex is a barimeter if a relationship and it should always be there. I say, in no way is it my duty to put out if I'm treated badly or shit, the person can't communicate with me.

I think the mention if "expectation" hit a nerve in me- a trigger from my ex. Add in the next day we got in our first argument. I stood my ground and we talked about it, which was good (which never ever happened with my ex). I'm learning to not hold a grudge and to get over the argument but deep down in me I'm still a bit triggered. Humph!

Awareness is good though. I'll work it out. Took me a long ass time to find a decent dude in dc so I will actively work to get pass this

Thanks y'all![/quote]

What do you mean he would wait until you were asleep and pull a fast one?[/quote]

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