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Reply to "Making it all look too easy - a mistake? (Housework/cooking/errands/etc)"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, if "let's make a list of chores" is too "pushy" for you, then you need help. I don't see why you can't just casually mention, in a how-was-your-day kind of way, the things that you did. Or just tell him you think it would be great for him to have a shorter commute, because then he could cook dinner. [/quote] Why do I need help? Making a list seems like keeping score to me, and I'm not interested in changing the balance of chores so don't really need a list. I'm not interested in making an issue of it with my husband. Even if his commute was shorter, I would still do the cooking and the chore distribution would not change. I'm not unhappy with the distribution of chores, I just want him to "see" what I do - because he wouldn't notice if the floor went unmopped for 2 years or if the toilets never got cleaned, that sort of thing. [/quote]
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