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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think sex in marriages is more dysfunctional than it needs to be precisely because people are discouraged from talking about sex generally. The default is for people who are suffering to suffer in silence. Couples often never really learn how to talk about sex with one another. There seems to be social pressure for people to be embarrassed about sex talk. Anyway, I'm a DH - we have sex every 2 weeks, more or less, and it's less than I'm happy with. I think I'd be happy at more like once a week. And, based on our TTC experience, I think I'd be unhappy with 3-4x/week. We've been married about 15 years. Kids are 10 and 11. [/quote] Lol. Whining to my BFF about how bad things are or bragging to her about how freakin' ahmazing things are will not help to strengthen my relationship with my BF/Dh. All it does is give someone outside of our relationship intimate details that are quite frankly none of their business. FWIW, I did not decide to stop sharing these types of details because thing were bad in that dept.[/quote]
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