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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like you have other issues with your father.  What are you really angry with him about?

Is it really that he had affairs?  Or is it more directly related to how he treated you?

If you confront him about anything, it should be about things he has done to you -- not about issues between him and your mother.

First of all, you never really know the whole story about what is going on between a married couple, even that couple is your parents.  Are you prepared for the possibility that there might be things about your mother that come out?  Maybe something about their sex life.  It seems to me that that is really something between them.

But that said, my guess is that there is another reason for your anger.  You should address the issues specifically between you and your father.  But before confronting him, you have to sort through your own emotions to really hone in on the specific things that are causing you pain so that you can clearly and coherently address them with him.

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