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[quote=Anonymous] You're really judging the wrong thing here, OP. It's ignorant and uncharitable of you to disparage your BIL in that way. He probably has Asperger's or some other syndrome limiting his social skills. Which you should be aware of, because these things run in families! People like this are often quite intelligent, and not any more prone to violence or pedophilia than others, since your post is going that way. The easy thing is that he probably doesn't mind you being blunt and direct. So tell him exactly what you expect. That you don't like visitors waiting in the empty house. If you don't return their calls, they shouldn't come, period. If ever BIL or FIL babysit for you, rules have to equally explicit and direct. A written checklist, read aloud and handed to them, should do the trick. Can you tell I have Asperger's in my family? [/quote]
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