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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are bisexual. Probably not a lot if it's only coming out now, but maybe you were raised particularly repressed and its stronger than you think. Doesn't matter really, you are married.  Handle these like you would fantasies about other men. Would you necessarily tell your husband? Will you cheat? Or is it all harmless between the ears fun?

Signed, bisexual woman married to a man. [/quote]

Thank you this helps. Do you think of women and men now that you are married to a man?[/quote]

Of course. But it's all kind of irrelevant. I chose monogamy. OTOH, unlike you I satisfied my curiosity already. Not sure how I would feel otherwise.

Do be careful about mentioning this to your husband. The stereotype is that men aren't threatened by such things but IME they are, maybe to a different degree than if you had a particular man in mind, but still. The stereotype that they find it a turn on may be true of simple relationships, but when marriage and commitment are involved, relationships aren't simple anymore, and they may instead wonder if you're about to leave them for a woman. In your case especially this would be a risk since presumably you've never mentioned this before. It will shake his faith in you unless you're careful to make clear that this isn't a threat to your marriage. If you're not clear on that yourself, well, you have some thinking to do. [/quote]

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