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[quote=Anonymous]Your sister needs to do the mature thing now: sit with her daughter and her fiancé and explain to them that when she did those promises to pay for the wedding she both: over estimated how much they could afford and underestimated the wedding costs. Now that she realistically looked at things, she is able to afford $X (she needs to be sure of this amount this time). She is very sorry she misled them initially, she really wishes she could afford more, and she will do everything to help them with organizing and getting a new wedding plan that fits the budget. And yes, I think she needs to honor some of the deposits already made. Agree it was very stupid to over promise but there is no point looking back. I can understand the niece's frustration but she will get over it and once married for some time will understand that the wedding / party / dress etc are such a tiny and inconsequential thing in a marriage (unless it's expense makes you broke).[/quote]
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