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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you ever question his decisions after they've been made?  He may be a little gun shy for a reason . . .

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I generally view all family decisions and household stuff as his domain.  I couldn't even tell you what riders we on our current homeowners insurance or what company did our last vent cleaning or when.  It's been strained recently, but I'm so stressed I can't handle taking on his stress and making decisions for him.  When I intervened with the realtor and contractor it was because the process was dragging on and he and I would discuss something, agree on timing, and then he wouldn't even tell them that we had agreed we wanted x complete by a certain date.  It was hard for me to step in because he usually is a normal functioning adult but I was worried because the house listing process was dragging on and on unnecessarily.

He decides what our cable and phone packages are, schedules yard maintenance when needed .. He's really usually super competent.

Our kids are in ES and are at school all day M-F[/quote]

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