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[quote=Anonymous]I work full time outside the home (I know there's an acronym and I can't remember it) and DH is a SAHD.  He has a background in finance - saved up so he could stay home with our kids.  We are moving b/c I got a promotion.  I have a lot going on between wrapping up at by old job and starting at the new.  Did I mention I'm organizing a bridal shower and bachelorette party with me and both kids being in a wedding coming up soon? So we are closing on a new house soon and trying to sell our current home.  DH usually handles most household managament on his own - insurance, bills, utilities, etc.  He is paralyzed by all of the decisions and can't do anything without explaining it all to me and having me either decide or discuss every little detail with him.  I had to make to do lists for him for getting the house ready to go on the market.  I had to intervene with the real estate agent and contractors getting out house ready (if you know me I am probably no longer anonymous).  I can't handle it any more.  I have so much professionally going on with the transitions that I need him to be able to pull his weight.  Every decision is taking a week - insurance riders, scheduling duct cleaning at the new house.  Any advice? Am I being insensitive?[/quote]

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