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[quote=Anonymous]Find out from your spouse whether when he was growing up he went to his grandparents house for all those holidays, and find out when his parents started hosting the grandparents at your in-laws' home. Then you can make that a point of commonality and talk about wanting to do it at your house. I like PPs idea of a compromise, but I'd switch it up between Easter and Thanksgiving and just do Christmas at home. Otherwise you're spending three hours in the car every Christmas, which is just a drag. Your in-laws could be flexible and switch it up by coming to you every other Christmas.[/quote]
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