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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hmm, you've just described me. I'm pretty much like this until I'm in a relationship. I assume the guy is dating other people in addition to having a career and friends/family. Once we're committed, I tend to call and text daily. So I don't expect to speak with him much in between dates. Are you interested in exclusivity? If so, have you let her know?

The current guy I'm dating seemed pleasantly surprised the first time I initiated a phone call. I moreso called because we were texting (he initiated) and I thought it would be easier to talk instead. Prior to that, I really wasn't playing games. I just think of him as a busy man. I figured he called when he really had time to focus on me. He travels a lot and works from home often and I respected that. I'm very cut and dry. Either you're my man or you're not. If we're not in a relationship, I give guys plenty of space. I'm totally cool with him seeing others. I'm far more attentive within a committed relationship.

[b]If you don't want an exclusive relationship, then your expectations are ridiculous. If you ultimately want to be with her, tell her you'd like to only see each other. Either way, you have your answer. No need for games.[/b][/quote]

+1 to the bolded. If you really like her, and she's interested enough to keep seeing you, then keep asking her out, or point-blank ask her about it. If you like her enough to not want to lose her, and you change the dynamic you admit you yourself have established without explaining why, then you might. [/quote]

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