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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it sounds like what happened to you may have been "grooming"-- testing the waters to see if you will tolerate being inappropriately touched. Many family abusers don't just walk up and attack someone. They build to it gradually over time. It is a real thing and to be taken very seriously. Re: your DD, it's hard to know. Kids do say random stuff and if she says she does want to see them, maybe nothing actually happened. But you are 1000% right to be on your guard. Perhaps stay at a hotel next time? And work with your DD on concepts like appropriate and inappropriate touching, the idea that you will always, always believe her, things like that. I would recommend a book but I have no clue which ones are good.[/quote]
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