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[quote=Anonymous]My WAG: Abusers are generally attempting to control people; as they fear losing control more, they escalate. The more out of control/threatened they are, the less able to maintain a facade...the more things "leak". I also think you are very incorrect about the motivation - the motivation likely has much more to do with finding the child in some way threatening (not that the child is actually threatening) to the mother and/or her self image, and also seeing an opportunity to exert even more control. Of all the things to ask/wonder about with this situation, this one seems...strange. Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it (involve yourself) beyond providing the child a safe escape and access to resources. She needs professional help handling the effects of the abuse. [/quote]
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