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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, it's a rough time and I'm going through it right now too, though I am also concerned about a diminished of romantic/sexual connection.  Recently, we decided to set aside fifteen-twenty minutes a day to talk about things that interest us (any tv we watch, sports, news of the day).  It has helped a lot.  Actually, we tend to talk while in bed at the end of the night when the kids are (finally!) in bed and it often leads to more intimate activities, which is great for me because I had become concerned about how infrequently we were having sex.  Sometimes, we are just so tired that we might fall asleep mid-conversation, but at least we tried and got a little bit done.  I recommend this as a first step if at all possible.[/quote]

I will talk to him about carving out time to talk. We are kind of the opposite of most people here in terms of sex. I am still very attracted to him sexually, and he to me. When we have nothing else, we can have sex, but that doesn't let me know how his day went or get me opening up about me. It's usually 1 to 2x /week when we are dead tired, and we fall asleep right afterward.

I have a few good woman friends, however I've never had a lot of women friends in my life. I'm not that type of person unfortunately. Since we met he has Always Been my best friend and I am pretty sure that I was his.  I don't think that I've been replaced, in fact I know that I haven't. We both have a void. [/quote]

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