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[quote=Anonymous]I can't trust myself to read the nuances of this letter.  DH and I are preparing to divorce over his affair, lack of holding a job or contributing to the household, etc. What does this mean?  I have to be honest, this makes me feel ....... Icky.

My Dearest Wife

Glad your day went well, you got some rest, re-situated DS into his house. Not ultimums by any sense but considering how bad you have been feeling any victory, small, large, or weird is good.

I love you. I think you are a marvelous wife, woman, and companion. I truly appreciate your feminine nature, ways. The emotional swings can be difficult, yet they add to the ying yang experience. Without the lows it is hard to appreciate fully the highs. I would not enjoy you as an emotional robot, someone who just agrees with me, kisses my a..., and acts, walks in step with my commands. I like you have your own spirit, thoughts, and act on them. You take control of your life, fulfill your needs, wants, and take pride in doing your tasks well.

You have always had others acting, or demanding your help in making their lives work. Selfishly you try your best to comply. The lines themselves state the exhaustion of such, yet you have done so for decades, most of the time receiving little to no recognition even less real thanks or praise. This was never greater than with xxxxxxx(aside DD who passed away)The only comfort, joy she had was feeling, believing in her parents' love. And she shined everyday from receiving unconditionally that love.

I don't know why people live their lives. For me I try to bring smiles, happiness, and hope that life is worth living, independent of the cards a person has. I have watched you for decades try to create environments, situations for the people close to you to experience their lives to their fullest, and to give them an opportunity to have their dreams become realities. At the same time to create a safety net so when their dreams, pursuits fail they don't slam to earth or have to see themselves in a mirror for what they truly have given in effort. Acts of love, mercy, and a nurtured realism.

DW, you are a remarkable women, wife, soul. God's peace be with you, and open your eyes to take heart in knowing you are appreciated and loved. I love you. I pray one day maybe I can bring a smile, calm to your face again....

You are special..........
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