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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My BIL's wife left him in a very immature way. She acted like an immature child instead of being honest with him. He was completely devastated and while they are equally to blame for the failure of the marriage the way she treated him was pretty despicable. Now there is a possibility she might come back. I realize it's his choice even if I don't agree and if he can forgive her I should be able to but despite that I hate her for what she did to him. Before this, I thought of her and loved her like a sister but now I don't know how to let go of my anger. Anyone BTDT who can give me some advice?[/quote]

Start by accepting the fact that she didn't do this to you, she did it to your BIL, so question what's really behind your anger. He apparently can let it go, and doesn't need you holding a grudge on his behalf. He knows her and their marriage far better than you do, so if he's forgiving her, trust his judgment enough to believe that it's what's best for him, and be glad they could reconcile.[/quote]

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